Why, Dad?

Gentle Parenting: Spineless or Stronger Than You Think?

Episode Summary

In this episode of Why, Dad?, Paul and Andrew unpack one of the most misunderstood parenting ideas out there: Gentle Parenting. They break down what it is, what it isn’t, and why so many dads (especially those who grew up with stricter models) find themselves confused by it. This is not a conversation about letting your kids walk all over you. It’s about holding boundaries and connection at the same time. With real-life moments, honest disagreements, and practical reflections, this episode challenges the idea that “respectful” means “permissive.” Whether you’re deep in toddler tantrums or just trying not to lose it after work, there’s something here for you.

Episode Notes

🧠 Topics Covered:

• What gentle parenting actually means
• The difference between permissive and respectful
• Why “being the adult” doesn’t mean being the boss
• Handling triggers without shame
• How we model emotional regulation
• Where we’ve gotten it wrong—and what we’ve learned
• Why connection gives your discipline more power

🎯 This episode is for:

• Dads trying to be intentional but overwhelmed
• Parents unsure about the “soft” stuff
• Anyone who’s yelled then regretted it
• Folks wondering if respectful parenting is too nice