Licensed play therapist and serial entrepreneur David Schatzkamer joins Why, Dad? to unpack why play isn’t just for kids—it’s the native language of connection. David shares real-world stories and professional insights to show how dads (and moms) can build deeper relationships with their children by learning to slow down, listen, and engage through play. From bedtime stalling to dragon hunting on a hike, the episode explores how everyday parenting challenges become moments of growth and bonding when approached with curiosity, presence, and a playful spirit.
Why play matters: Play is how kids communicate their inner world. It’s not just fun—it’s expressive, healing, and relational.
Responding vs. reacting: How slowing down and tuning in builds trust and emotional regulation.
Connection before correction: When children act out, it’s often a bid for connection—not defiance.
Scheduled unstructured time: Just 15–30 minutes of fully present, screen-free play each week can transform your parent-child relationship.
The bedtime battle decoded: Why your kid isn’t actually “hungry”—they just want you near.
Repetition as revelation: Repetitive play often reveals emotional needs or stressors.
Father-daughter bonds: Why a dad’s role in a daughter’s life is especially formative for her confidence and sense of worth.
Parent repair moments: It's not about being perfect—it’s about coming back later to reconnect and repair when you miss the mark.
Creating playful structure: Code words, rituals, and small gestures go a long way in strengthening bonds.
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